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A child who wets can dampen your travel plans.

By Reno Lovison
(advertorial)

Bedwetting precludes many children from a variety of social opportunities that involve overnight stays, and for parents who like to travel, a child who wets can dampen your plans as well. The good news is that bedwetting can be overcome.

It's important to note that bedwetting or "pediatric nocturnal enuresis," is not a result of a "lazy child" or bad parenting. Most likely your child's wetting has a genetic basis. Therefore she is no more responsible for her wetting then she is for choosing the color of her eyes. Also, you are not alone. According to the National Kidney Foundation approximately 5 million children wet the bed every night.

The TRY for DRY team based at Children's Memorial Hospital in Chicago offers this advice. In order to effect a permanent long-term "cure" for bedwetting, your child's "best bet" will be the use of an enuresis alarm. This small device is worn at every night until he or she has achieved fourteen consecutive dry days and nights. The process is not instant and can take from 3 weeks to 3 months until the child has obtained this goal. However this short investment in time now can save you from years of future wet nights. Annually about 3% of children will become dry on their own, but why wait and see. Statistically about 15 % of eight year-olds wet the bed nightly and about 5% of fifteen year-olds have never been dry. So be proactive and take action sooner than later.

Ideally you will begin the use of an enuresis alarm 8 to 10 weeks before any planned trip or vacation, but if you do not have that luxury there are still some things you can do. Begin the use of the alarm at home before you leave, even if it is just for a few weeks. You can consider the continued use of the alarm while you are staying in a hotel if it is just your own family in the room. Since teasing may ultimately be more harmful to your child's self-esteem we do not encourage the use of the alarm when the child is at overnight camp or sleeping at other people's homes, particularly if there is a chance that he or she might be ridiculed for bedwetting. For many children there is a pharmaceutical alternative called DDAVP which may be effective. This medication distributed by Aventis Pasteur, Inc. often has immediate results but is generally only useful as long as the child continues its use. For this reason it is recommended that you continue the alarm therapy when you return home.

Other tips that may make your travel more comfortable is the use of pull-ups or other disposable undergarments as well as an ample supply of disposable bed liners. We do not encourage the continued use of these items as they are expensive over time and may have a tendency to make older children feel infantile. One good approach is to travel with a sleeping bag. Older children have good success discreetly slipping in and out of their disposable undergarments while inside the bag. The disposable can then be put into a plastic bag and trashed. For smaller children the sleeping bag is also effective as it can further protect other people's mattresses from potentially leaky diapers and can be easily laundered.

To learn more about bedwetting read "Getting to Dry- How to help your child overcome bedwetting" published by Harvard Common Press or visit http://www.tryfordry.com for information about enuresis alarms and DDAVP.

Copyright ©2002. You may freely reprint this article if it is used in its entirety.



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WRITER'S BIO

Reno Lovison is the marketing director and education coordinator for the TRY for DRY program headed by Dr. Max Maizels at Children's Memorial Hospital in Chicago. Mr. Lovison offered editorial assistance to the publication of "Getting to Dry" and has been a member of the TRY for DRY team since 1994. In addition to TRY for DRY he is the owner of Reno Lovison Marketing in Chicago providing marketing services to growing businesses.